How to Ask Someone to Be Your Valentine
Tuesday, February 17, 2009 7:30Valentine’s Day is just around the corner. It is a very special day for all those people who believe in love and romance. Every person wants to be with a special some one on this equally extraordinary day.
So, now let us discuss some fantastic tips on how to ask someone to be your Valentine.
1. Be straightforward
If you want to ask someone to be your valentine then you have to be very straightforward. You do not have to intimidate your prospective date with a proposal that may come across as a threat. Confidence is key when you want to invite someone to a date, and even more so if you seriously want to pursue a long-term romantic relationship.
2. Be relaxed
While asking someone out on this day you be to be very calm and composed. Do not ever show that you are tensed or troubled. Just be the way you are, and do not worry about anything.
3. Try to be romantic by writing love letters
As long as you write the letter or poem on your own, and you are sincere about your thoughts, then you are good to go for a possible Valentine’s Day date. You can send the letter through a trusted friend, put it inside your special someone’s locker, or mail it through a courier service. You may even try romantic ways of delivering the letter or poem, like through a carrier pigeon or a message in a bottle.
4. Anticipate rejection
Like many things about love, you need to realize that no amount of advice guarantees a hundred percent chance for success in dating. At best, you can only hope that your efforts will pay off in a positive way, but you should also anticipate that your dating strategies and tactics may fail. Never loose your hopes or sprits if you are rejected.
5. Use the “bridge”
If you are just too shy to ask someone out on a date, and you wish that someone else could do it for you. A “bridge” is a trusted friend who can act as the person who sets up a date between you and your prospective Valentine. The “bridge” makes it convenient for you to score the win for Valentine’s Day.
6. Do not wait until the last moment
Do not wait until the last minute to ask your Valentine for “the date.” They may have made other plans. Plan ahead and ask your Valentine if they would like to get together about a week in advance.
These are some wonderful tips that you should follow while asking someone to be your valentine.